Ok so honestly, this is my response to this story: @busyphillips posted an Instagram post saying she had overheard a conversation between a woman and her husband debating an Instagram caption. She wanted him to write ‘to the love of my life’ (about her) and he, well, really didn’t want to.

Yikes. That IS painful to overhear. It even made Busy cry. Imagine being the wife!

My advice to the woman? Never settle for second best. Be your own best friend, your own love of your life, and you’ll never have to negotiate with someone to write that you are theirs (when they clearly don’t want to, and when you clearly…aren’t).